using your Truth Love Energy to learn how to choose, and to choose how to learn
[Hani] I have a feeling that when my mom is not feeling well, whether it be emotionally or physically, somehow she transfers that to me. And I end up with something that’s not mine and I need to deal with it. And sometimes this is very literal, like she had stomach ache the other day and then I started having the stomach ache and she felt better and then I had to heal myself. So could you first validate if this is actually happening and I am not imagining things :) and if yes, why? and how could I avoid it or stop it?
[MEntity] In response to the second question: these are what we would refer to as Sympathy Pains. This is not imposed upon you, but when one has a long-term relationship with someone, this can develop. It is a by-product of Cording; the energetic bonds that run between fragments.
[MEntity] Sympathy Pains is the process of siphoning pain or ailments from another. To alter this, it would have to be shifted into a state of empathy. Sympathy presumes you must do the work, or that you are somehow in a better position to do the processing, but Empathy is a recognition of the other as an equal who can process her own pain.
[MEntity] Keep in mind that your experience is not a literal duplication or transfer of the actual pain or ailment, but of the energy that is packaged in that person's process, and this is then translated into something as similar as your body can experience.
[MEntity] When you feel this is happening again, you can start by simply acknowledging that "This is not mine."
[MEntity] This may not stop the process in your first few attempts, but it can begin the shift away from Sympathy and toward Empathy.